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The Path to Parenthood

After Ever Happy

Hardin and Tessa's eventual family life grows from Tessa's fertility fears, a miscarriage, and a long period of hope and uncertainty.

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Motherhood ImaginedMotherhood Imagined from "After Ever Happy". Motherhood Imagined A long-held hope Tessa has imagined becoming a loving mother since childhood and pictures Hardin as a devoted father.
Motherhood Imagined A long-held hope Tessa has imagined becoming a loving mother since childhood and pictures Hardin as a devoted father. Fear enters the dream A medical warning makes that future feel uncertain before she has spoken with Hardin. Unequal expectations Hardin initially says he does not want children, leaving Tessa to imagine that their futures may never align.
Possibility and RiskPossibility and Risk from "After Ever Happy". Possibility and Risk Results are sobering The doctor explains that Tessa's cervix is short and pregnancy may be unlikely and high-risk.
Possibility and Risk Results are sobering The doctor explains that Tessa's cervix is short and pregnancy may be unlikely and high-risk. No simple answer Adoption is mentioned, but the information does not immediately resolve Tessa's grief about biological motherhood. A private crisis She leaves carrying the news without yet knowing how to share it with Hardin.
Hardin's Change of HeartHardin's Change of Heart from "After Ever Happy". Hardin's Change of Heart Loss becomes real Hardin discovers that the possibility of children matters to him once it may be taken away.
Hardin's Change of Heart Loss becomes real Hardin discovers that the possibility of children matters to him once it may be taken away. Words fail first His initial response is angry and clumsy, deepening Tessa's hurt. A more honest future He apologizes and begins to acknowledge that he may want to be a parent with her.
Trying and LosingTrying and Losing from "After Ever Happy". Trying and Losing A year of effort They pursue fertility appointments and try to conceive despite the uncertain odds.
Trying and Losing A year of effort They pursue fertility appointments and try to conceive despite the uncertain odds. A positive test Tessa becomes pregnant, and the couple allows itself to celebrate cautiously. Miscarriage She loses the pregnancy, and Hardin grieves while trying to support her through the loss.
A Second ChanceA Second Chance from "After Ever Happy". A Second Chance Hope returns unexpectedly After the couple has decided to pause trying, Tessa reveals another positive test.
A Second Chance Hope returns unexpectedly After the couple has decided to pause trying, Tessa reveals another positive test. Cautious joy Both remain aware of the risk but choose to welcome hope rather than suppress it. A child arrives Seven months later, Tessa gives birth to Emery, beginning the family they had nearly lost hope of having.
before the first fertility appointment
during the first New York doctor visit
after Tessa explains the diagnosis
the year after they reunite
one year after the miscarriage